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I’m 21 and pregnant. What should I do. Please give advice. It helps.?

Question by Jamie: I’m 21 and pregnant. What should I do. Please give advice. It helps.?
I’m 21 and 3 months pregnant. My boyfriend is the father but he is not really great. He is in Seattle right now while im in florida. He went there for just the summer. He will be back in two months. But he has put his hands on me twice. I dont trust him not to cheat. Hes 25. He says he loves me but he just has alot of mental issues. I feel like if he was different maybe i would keep the baby. But i kind of want to get away from him. I am a cna and want to get back in school to do nursing which i will do. Also i have no family to support me or help when the baby gets here. I would only have him and hes not really good. Should i abort or no? Also i was suppose to get the abortion on wednesday but before i got on the highwaysl i got really sick and had to go to the hospital so i couldnt go that day. Was that a sign that i shouldnt do it? Give advice please.

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Answer by Julie
Hey Girl,
Abort or adopt out. Your boyfriend sounds like a twat, dump him and fly free.
The kid will just remind you of him

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Q&A: Adoption advice from someone with experience?

Question by Olivia: Adoption advice from someone with experience?
I am 23 years old, I have a job and I’m currently in college getting my degree for teaching. I’m renting a house with my fiance who also has a job. I have a cousin who is 17 and pregnant, she is not by any means fit to be a parent, and she is choosing to give the baby up. I’ve always wanted to be a mother, and we were actually planning to start TTC after our wedding in June. We’ve also both thought about adopting and agreed that it’s something we want to be a part of some day.

If both of the baby’s parents are willing to sign over their parental rights to us and we are married before the baby is born, Is there any reason why we wouldn’t get custody? I’m worried about my age, being that I am not much older than the baby’s biological mom. I’m also not sure about all of the requirements and steps we should be taking.

I’m doing research and figuring everything out on my own, of course, but I wanted to hear from someone who has actually been through the adoption process what I should be expecting. I have no experience with adoption at all, and we just found out about the baby yesterday. Thank you all for your help! (:

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Answer by Zelda
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You should help to keep the baby in their own family. Being young and unfit is a temporary problem. Get guardianship for a while and see if the mother changes her mind.

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